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To myself

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 Hi there. I started this blog when the world shut down during COVID. Today I stumbled upon an old post while googling myself. It's been five years. Five years of nothing but tests — each one designed to make me level up. I have always wanted things beyond my current capacity. I am delusional. And the best part? That delusion is exactly what made me win. I guess.  I run a studio today. Studio Aarth — an interior design studio.  I built a business in a city where I didn't even know how to survive. I've had days with no food at home, to the time as me paying salaries. I was a nobody trying to break into luxury interiors — a space that runs entirely on connections. I didn't have any. I got in anyway. Today I've upgraded my devices, I pay my own bills, pay money for home construction and also a trip with my sister. I am doing some big girl things as it looks.  In the last five years, I have worked a lot on myself and worked so much so that I am kinda proud of myself. Bu...

The Fresher Trap

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How often do you find yourself trapped in the “Fresher” cycle? You just graduated, which means you have no real-world experience yet. So, all that your office folks ask you to do is either make coffee or handle tasks you have absolutely no clue about. “You dare leave on time? You’re a fresher. How can you be so strict about your time?” You are expected to spend your entire day doing unnecessary things in the name of being a fresher. And then the cycle continues. Nobody really speaks about the bullying that happens under the label of “training freshers.” I am an Interior Architect. While people in many other fields work around 48 hours a week on average, I was working a minimum of 51 hours. Even after that, my Sundays would go into working on more designs and endless variations — because apparently, everybody likes options. To be honest, I genuinely love my career and all the chaos that comes with it… until the “fresher” label starts becoming an excuse to disrespect boundaries. I am ver...

Relishing Life

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There is nothing you can be thankful for at the time when you can afford two meals, a house to be safe, and some added luxuries. As everyone around the dimension is in different perceptions of loss and gain, even when I do not have a stable source of income, often felt depressed and empty at this juncture, I would still be glad to say, I am happy for the nature to be in peace I was in class 7, I read in my Sanskrit book, as it translated " Whatever happens, happens for a reason."  I was so absorbed by the phase, that even today I look things exactly on the same perception. Like most kids, I am grown up with different stories with morals that were so strong or maybe, I was too conscious that I worked myself up of the kind — to be always empathetic and never sympathetic. To be sincere in everything I do and most importantly stand of the right no matter what. To be honest, over the years I have been in a lot of troubles just because of these certain principles of m...

The Outline

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Hi. I am Joitree. An Interior Design graduate by education but presently is in the mode of trying every new things possible. Life has never been this great until I comprehended, that I have the most supportive parents in the world. I didn't know that I would be this blessed after the way I started my college (maybe in some other post later, I shall talk of this episode). College formally got over in May 2019. Declined all my placements because of some bad notes during the interviews. My Department Head was outraged of my approach. Nevertheless, I booked my tickets and flew back home-Calcutta. On return, the first thing I asked my parents was, "Do you guys want me to go for a job?" or “Can I take some time off and start things of own?"  Their answer made me shed tears. They said "Do whatever makes you happy!" That's when my effort on myself with my opus on design perspective initiated and became more absorbed. Had my first rejection. ...